Shocking Truth number 1
Do not believe those so called experts who claim that you can get back with your girlfriend with in a specific period of time like 30 days,7days, or even 2 days.
There is no magic way that will bring your girlfriend back within a given number of days because every relationship is unique.Not one specific time line or strategy is true for every situation.Although it is possible to get your ex-girlfriend back in seven days or less.The majority of guys who succeed in getting their girl back do so in the second month,some take two weeks or less and some take three months or more depending on how faithfully they implement their counter intuitive strategies.
Shocking truth number 2
If you are feeling pain over your breakup,you may be killing your chances of getting her back.
You see when you suffer over the break up of your relationship with your ex-girlfriend it causes you to idealize the relationship you had with her.That is you turn to glorify her by focusing only on the positive aspects of the relationship.This then causes you to react out of need and desperation rather than true desire and this only pushes your ex-girlfriend further away from you.Nothing turns a woman "OFF" more than a man who is needy and desperate.The sooner you get rid of those feeling of dis-pare the sooner your ex girlfriend will instantly realize that you do not just NEED HER you simply WANT HER.There is a huge difference between the two and it is a difference that shows sense and respond to immediately.You will not understand the power of this strategy until you try it.
Shocking Truth number three
A slight change in your approach will cause her to practically beg to be with you.
All the relationship books,courses and so called experts give the following advice;
-Act like you are OK with her decision to leave.The problem is they left some thing out that is very important.The key is act like you are OK but you are not OK with her decision to break up with you.That will seems like a slide change but one that will make a tremendous difference from the respond you will get from her.If you act or pretend that every thing is OK she will see right through it and you will not trigger the psychological reaction you want which is to make her want to come back to you.
you also need to make your ex-girlfriend know you are OK with her decision to break up with you but yo can not plainly tell her this.If you use the wrong approach to let her you are doing just fine with out her, you may course her to want to forget about you all together.If you take the right approach it will be long before she is back in your arms.
Shocking truth number four
The one thing you must never tell a girl after a break up.
Most guys make this mistake after their girl friend breaks up with them.They tell her "I Love you and I will always be there for you.You may thing saying this ten words may course her to come back but it actually creates the opposite of that.It gives her the permission to go out and do what ever she pleases,even date other guys with the assurance that she can always come back to you when ever she wants.And if she is already dating some one else,telling her this ten words is even worst.She will then take the time to get to know the other guy fully compare him to you and then decide who she wants to be with.That is like letting her have her cake and eat it too.
Shocking truth number five
Do not remain friends with your ex-girlfriend!
Most relationship books,curses and so called relationship experts tell you that remaining fiends with your ex girlfriend is a good strategy for getting her back.This is misleading advice based on the wrong assumption that if you remain friends with your ex you will keep other guys away and you will eventually get back together.Actually in 95% of cases,remaining friends with a girl after she breaks up with you increases the likely hood that she will move on to another guy.There are only two circumstances that is OK to remain friends with your ex,you will learn them when you study the counter intuitive strategies.
Shocking truth number six
The "2-tricks"you must never try with your ex (these will push her away to the point of no return)
What is worst than not getting your ex girlfriend back is getting her back only to lose her again soon after some times only a few days or a few weeks.She can also end up hating you on top of it all.This is exactly what happens when you pull tricks,tactics and manipulative mind games that the so call relationship experts teach you.The two most common of these tricks that back fire big time are;
-Deliberately ignoring your ex-girlfriend and
This is reverse psychology at its worst.were reverse psychology does play an important role of getting your girlfriend back,the way of using it may destroy your chances of ever reuniting with your girlfriend and even you do succeed in getting her back with tricks,you will most likely lose her again before it is too long.Why ,because the problems that coursed the first break up will still be there.Tricks would not get in to the roots of these problems.
Remember in other to get your ex girlfriend back you most do the opposite of what you should do.
8 comments:
Thanks a lot for your advice guys, it helped me a lot, I went to www.saveabreakup.com and followed their step by step instructions and it worked perfectly, now me and my girlfriend are back together.
Responding to shocking truth #3. What it means to be ok with it is that you show it doesn't affect you. You are reversing the breakup. Most women are use to guys begging and pleading for another chance the moment she suggests a breakup.
Being ok with it and letting it slide off your shoulder will make her curious to why you didn't grovel like most guys.
Another thing women tend to do after a breakup is suggest "just being friends." You don't accept it, but you don't be rude about it. When my ex girlfriend broke up with me and suggested friendship, I just told her with a smile, "We'll play it by ear."
That is also a form of rejection. You are reversing the breakup power when you don't grovel or beg and when you refuse friendship.
One good thing about breaking up even if we shouldn´t split a relationship to easy is that we then have to go to the bottom with ourselves finding out who we really are and what we really want out of life.
my girlfriend broke up with me 4 days ago,she said i was immature & dishonest,ive had a good look at myself since the breakup.I also have paranoia.I am willing to go to any lenths to get her back.Any suggestions anyone.
My gd broke up with me bcoz of her family... But I think she is laying with mi..I couldn't accept her brk up..n trying to get her back.. But when I try to talk with her she talk with mi aggressively... She started hating me lot n m trying to get her back again n again.. She gets irritated when I talk with her n force her to cum back..plzz suggest me what to do...plzz
I should have read this article earlier. I ignored her for 6-8 weeks and during that period she was posting affirmations about moving forward and posts about positive quotes and all that crap on her facebook profile. I continued to ignore her till I broke down and in 1 week I sent a text claiming my love for her then 5 days later a voice message asking her to call me then 1 day later a facebook message. I should not have broken down like some weak whimp. Now I haven't nor will I message her again.
Nearly every adult across the country has experienced a situation where a relationship crumbles without their intending it to. Most of the time, these people simply learn how to move on without a problem. However, sometimes you may encounter the end of a relationship that you are incapable of moving on from.
Many people go through a breakup every day. If your Ex has recently broken up with you there are a few things you should know. First, the fact is that about 90% of all relationships can be salvaged if you go about it the right way.
Also, there are some important things you should, and more importantly, should not do immediately following a breakup.
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