Sunday, May 30, 2010
4 Simple Ways To Rescue Your Relationship
1. Learn to handle your arguments differently
Most often there are arguments in every relationship,but it is how you handle them that makes the difference.Just like cultivating a bad habit for example taking drugs, so too is arguments and fighting in a relationship.relationship arguments is not harmless.It is addictive and if not stopped early it will likely cause unrepairable damage.For sure there are times when emotions gets in the way, and the natural thing to do is to blow out the steam. I sometimes have to bite my tongue so I don't say something I would regret later (after all who ever said self-control is a bad thing?)
Having a naturally calm personality makes it easier for you to think before you speak which is definitely not the case with most people.However that should not be a barrier for you not to give it a try.
2. Turning gossip and bashing into praises
You know we men like sitting together some times and turn our discussions towards what our girls or wife do.Since no one is perfect, it is always wise to refuse participating in such discussions.This will show how you respect and value your girl or wife.When ever such a discussion starts,always make it a point to start sharing your girl friend or wife's good qualities.This method usually have a positive effect on you and the others as well.Most often it ends up steering the conversation into a positive direction therefore helping your friends to also praise their girl friends and wives--which in turn helps them to start respecting and appreciating them moor too.When your girlfriend or wife discovers that you refuse to belittle her in-front of your friends will make her love you even more.
3. From time to time change your routine of life
Usually after a few months or years in our relationships we start getting all comfy and stuff we start doing following a certain pattern in life,doing the same thing over and over.(like having the same dinner /going out only on movie dates and some time having the same sexual routine and the same behaviors). keeping your relationship exciting will help rescue your relationship.This can be done by rekindling some of that magic you had at the start of your relationship paying special attention to the following areas;
1) Going on creative dates
accepting to go out and do something you've never done before at least once every week,fortnight or month. It really doesn't matter what you do, but it's important to commit and do it constantly. Want some ideas? Go to a winery,museum, art gallery, carnival, the beach, or have a picnic in a park.
2)Spice things up under the sheets
Common trying new position, technique or location in bed will not hurt but make you have a great time.Introducing some new toys into the
bedroom can also spark things up.
3. Be a gentleman
Buying her a gift just to say“I love you," give her a nice massage, set up a scavenger hunt that shows how much you care about her with a gift at the end will just be icing on the cake.
4. Face your financial issues straight foreword.
Take it from me or not finance is one of the major problems facing most relationships today.The rate of divorces and couples calling it quit before they say "I Do" today is alarming.
There you go.The 4 Simple Ways To Rescue Your Relationship and turn it
So there you have it. 4 ways to turn your marriage
down a positive road. Let no one deceive you that rescuing your relationship from trouble would be easy.It takes some amount of help,time ,effort and above all persistence.