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Monday, September 1, 2014

How to Get Ex Girlfriend Back She Probably Does Not Mean to Break Up

You know the emotions that runs through women are overloaded as compared to guys right. And these emotions make women very dramatic. You definitely know your girl more than me, but usually they say or do things that they do not mean to. Don't be surprised to learn that three quarters of most break ups are initiated by women.And those break ups initially was not interned to end up with a break up. Some times they are just being Drama Queens.

Why is this important?

This is important to consider because if you do not handle your break up the right way you may lose your girlfriend for ever.Like I said you know your girl better so you most have known or at Least seen some of the signs of  a Drama Queen before trying the following tips.

So here is how to get your Drama Queen back

Keeping away from her for a while, giving her some space. If her initial intention was not to end up in the situation that you guys are in now, then there is a high probability that, giving her some space would cause her to start missing you. She  will start missing some of the things you used to do together,like cuddling or going to the clubs and hanging out with other friends.This way she will learn how life is without you. By giving her this time out you are directly or indirectly sending her a clear message and that message is simple you can move on without her.

I know it is hard, you probably will be dying to make up with her, but you have to stay your course,stay calm, and focus on the program.

Here is where it starts getting a little difficult if not confusing.The question at this stage is;

How can one get her back by shorting Out completely?

By the way, by "shorting out" I mean all those dramatic gestures like sending her flowers, letters, emails, texts or trying to be her Romeo by standing under her window to sing her a love song like what some guys have tried and failed.No don't do that just cut out and stay that way simple.

You can actually use this strategy as your plan "A".There are, however, situations where the girl holds her grown and does not call or contact you, what do you do next? Well, it is time then to take control of the situation like a man head on.

If after about a week and she still hadn't called you, Then it is time for you to make a move by initiating a contact.Now you have to be careful with this step. You have to casually ask her how things are going on with her through the Email or text. Make sure you keep things unemotional that is at a low profile.You want her to think you are just being concerned as a friend.

In certain cases this doesn't get things moving, but do not give up because here is where it really starts getting really fun.It is time to start showing some concern, by either calling her at about once a week,or connecting with her through her Facebook wall.You might also occasionally show up in areas where you think she is sure to hang out.But do not bug her or stalk her as some guys would be tempted to do.

The next step is working and will keep on working.

Most girls turn to connect their relationship and emotions very deeply, In ways that just leave the guys some times doom founded.This type of situations often arises from the dates of those very special moments you both usually have.  Try to remember the important dates in her life. Send her a card or small gift on her birthday, so she knows you are thinking about her during the day that belongs to her. If you have a meaningful anniversary, you might want to drop her a note telling her what it means to you. But keep it short and sweet.

There is a famous saying in west Africa that goes like this "You can take a camel to the stream, but you cannot force that camel to drink water". So also are the cases that really does not apply as this strategy indicates.Putting in action is what will help you know the truth. Now if after about a month or so she is not showing any signs of getting back with you then it is time to start considering to move on.


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