Tuesday, July 6, 2010
Relationship Rescue/7 Cool Ways To Rekindle The Magic and Romance In Your Relationship
It is frustrating when relationship no more have that magic and romance it once had.It is even scaring when you know it may affect or end your relationship.It is obvious you are not alone .Sharing your life with the same person for a long period of time can become too comfy and stable,therefore making things stale and as a result losing the sparks that made your relationship so special in the first place.This might lead to a breakup.
Below are some creative and fun ways that can help rekindle that magic and romance you once had in your relationship starting today.
1)Sending a unique gift to her at work may just be one of those sparks that can reignite the romance again.Take for example drawing a childlike picture with smiley sun and two sticky figures holding hands.You know kind of label the sticky figure with your names(Obama and Micheal)pointing to the stick figure.Now write "I LOVE YOU" inside a heart. Envelope it and post it with a formal workplace address label of your partner, so she can receive it in the middle of the day at work.Just imagine that big smile that she will be wearing after opening that envelope and looking at the content.I bet she will stop working for a while just to think about you .
2)You know we adults love becoming kids once in a while.So having a huge water fight with large water pistols on the beach on hot sunny day with her can really be fun.
3)Bringing back her childhood memories will also be a good way to rekindle that magic and romance in your relationship.Ask her family for example what she loved the most when she was still a kid,if she always wanted a porcelain doll buy one for her on her birthday.She will not only appreciate your gift, but also the fact that you were so thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted.
4) Little things like visiting the swings and giving her a ride might bring back those happy childhood memories.
5)Have you ever tried sleeping outside on a warm summer night ?Why not try that with her by organizing a backyard picnic.Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and put together some snacks.Lie down with her and just gaze up at the stars together while having some chocolates and champagne.
6.)Have you ever thought of giving her a flower. Show you’re grateful for your partner by leaving her a long-stem rose flower where she will easily find it,with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming into my life with love ....(your name)."
7.)Icing the cake at the end of the day by making love with her. Lovemaking is probably the most profound way to rekindle the magic and romance in your relationship.When I say love making I do not just mean the usual way you having been doing.What I mean here is spicing it up a little,may be surprising her with a little gift after making love, try a new position, learn to give her a sensual massage before or after.What about just looking in each others eyes while caressing each others bare skin before and after making love.
Never you underestimate the power of these little things as most people do in their relationships.When things are not moving in your relationship do not wait for your better half (girlfriend/wife )to do something.If you are really a woman's man you will take action,make the first step towards mending your relationship.The name of the game is "LOVE" so why not show it when you have the opportunity.